Nobody should ever make you feel guilty for making healthy decisions and working to improve your life.

If they do, it’s because they’re insecure about their own life and are looking for validation.

Call them out on it or cut them out of your life. You don’t need that and you deserve better.

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No girl should ever settle to being a side chick..and feel proud of it.

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The realest thing. What kind of woman would feel comfortable being in that situation. Where are your morals and self confidence? Who wants to settle to be hidden or just a fuck to a man that has a wife or a girlfriend. One thing I will NEVER do is break up a family or settle for number 2 . What character do u portray to yourself, family, friends and to that man? Think about that one before you settle to be a “side chick”

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So, what if, instead of thinking about solving your whole life, you just think about adding additional good things. One at a time. Just let your pile of good things grow.

Attachments, Rainbow Rowell   (via seulray)

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What if you’re giving a bj in the shower and he just starts shampooing and conditioning your hair 

very polite

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Saturdays are for adventure; Sundays are for cuddling

General life philosophy (via fraggybird)

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my life got about a thousand times better once i stopped censoring myself

and by censoring i don’t mean i suddenly embraced indiscriminate swearing; i mean i stopped trying to sugarcoat my past or my feelings; i stopped lying by omission; i stopped having guilty pleasures; i began unabashedly enjoying whatever i liked; i became very honest; i cut out of my life poisonous people and negative ideals, and i am so, so much happier for it

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having siblings is weird bc like one minute u want to strangle them with their own intestines and then later ur singing dramatic duets together

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"boys will be boys"
girls will be girls?


"boys will be boys"

girls will be girls?

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You can’t shame or belittle people into changing. This means we can’t use self-hate to lose weight… Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change. When we give ourselves permission to be imperfect, when we find self-worth despite our imperfections, when we build connection networks that affirm and value us as imperfect beings, we are much more capable of change.

Literally every day at my desk